How to Get the Most Out of Your Wedding Photography

What can a couple do to help their wedding photographer take amazing photos on their wedding day?

Helping your wedding photographer capture truly stunning photos involves more than just hiring someone with a good portfolio. It’s a collaboration. Here’s how a couple can set their photographer up for success and ensure they get timeless, magazine-worthy images:

1. Build a Real Relationship with Your Photographer

  • Meet or video chat before the big day.
  • Share your personalities, your love story, and your vision for the day.
  • Comfort and trust will result in more natural, relaxed photos.

Suggestion: Do an engagement shoot… it breaks the ice and helps you feel camera-ready on the wedding day.

2. Create a Thoughtful Wedding Day Timeline

  • Allocate ample time for portraits and couple photos.
  • Work with your planner and photographer to avoid a rushed schedule.
  • Comfort and trust will result in more natural, relaxed photos.
  • Ideal lighting: Golden Hour (1 hour before sunset) is the most flattering for couple portraits.

3. Choose Locations with Intention

  • Prioritize venues or spots with great natural light, clean backdrops, and character.
  • Have a weather contingency plan, especially for outdoor photos.
Smiling Bride getting dressed with her Mothers help, San Francisco wedding, photo by destination wedding photographer Curtis Myers

4. Keep Getting-Ready Spaces Tidy and Well-Lit

  • Natural light + minimal clutter = beautiful candid moments.
  • Avoid dim hotel rooms or cramped spaces for hair and makeup.

Suggestion: Request that bridesmaids and groomsmen keep bags and clutter in a separate corner or room.

5. Trust Your Photographer’s Creative Direction

  • Be open to poses, placements, and even a few quirky ideas.
  • They know how to find the best light, composition, and angles.

The best photos often come when you lean in, let go, and allow natural chemistry to show.

6. Prepare a “Shot Wish List” for Key People & Moments

  • Create a list of who exactly is included in each group photo.
  • Identify any special detail photos that are wanted and any guests are “VIP’s” (perhaps a college roommate, 95 year old grandma or pet dog). 
  • Share this list well before the wedding—not the day of.

Suggestion: Designate a family member or planner to help gather groups efficiently.

7. Schedule Couple Portrait Time

  • Plan for 15–30 minutes just for the two of you, away from the crowd.
  • These are often the most meaningful, emotional, and intimate photos of the day.

8. Minimize Phone & Camera Distractions

  • Encourage an unplugged ceremony so your photographer captures clean, uninterrupted shots.
  • Guests with phones in the aisle often block key moments.

9. Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera

  • The best photos happen when you are present and connected.
  • Whisper, laugh, dance and let your love be visible. The camera will do the rest.

10. Provide Access, Not Just a Timeline

  • Give your photographer full access: to the planner, the schedule, and your vibe.
  • The more they know, the more intuitively they’ll capture the essence of your day.

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