What can a couple do to help their wedding photographer take amazing photos on their wedding day?
Helping your wedding photographer capture truly stunning photos involves more than just hiring someone with a good portfolio. It’s a collaboration. Here’s how a couple can set their photographer up for success and ensure they get timeless, magazine-worthy images:
1. Build a Real Relationship with Your Photographer
- Meet or video chat before the big day.
- Share your personalities, your love story, and your vision for the day.
- Comfort and trust will result in more natural, relaxed photos.
Suggestion: Do an engagement shoot… it breaks the ice and helps you feel camera-ready on the wedding day.
2. Create a Thoughtful Wedding Day Timeline
- Allocate ample time for portraits and couple photos.
- Work with your planner and photographer to avoid a rushed schedule.
- Comfort and trust will result in more natural, relaxed photos.
- Ideal lighting: Golden Hour (1 hour before sunset) is the most flattering for couple portraits.
3. Choose Locations with Intention
- Prioritize venues or spots with great natural light, clean backdrops, and character.
- Have a weather contingency plan, especially for outdoor photos.



4. Keep Getting-Ready Spaces Tidy and Well-Lit
- Natural light + minimal clutter = beautiful candid moments.
- Avoid dim hotel rooms or cramped spaces for hair and makeup.
Suggestion: Request that bridesmaids and groomsmen keep bags and clutter in a separate corner or room.
5. Trust Your Photographer’s Creative Direction
- Be open to poses, placements, and even a few quirky ideas.
- They know how to find the best light, composition, and angles.
The best photos often come when you lean in, let go, and allow natural chemistry to show.
6. Prepare a “Shot Wish List” for Key People & Moments
- Create a list of who exactly is included in each group photo.
- Identify any special detail photos that are wanted and any guests are “VIP’s” (perhaps a college roommate, 95 year old grandma or pet dog).
- Share this list well before the wedding—not the day of.
Suggestion: Designate a family member or planner to help gather groups efficiently.



7. Schedule Couple Portrait Time
- Plan for 15–30 minutes just for the two of you, away from the crowd.
- These are often the most meaningful, emotional, and intimate photos of the day.
8. Minimize Phone & Camera Distractions
- Encourage an unplugged ceremony so your photographer captures clean, uninterrupted shots.
- Guests with phones in the aisle often block key moments.
9. Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera
- The best photos happen when you are present and connected.
- Whisper, laugh, dance and let your love be visible. The camera will do the rest.
10. Provide Access, Not Just a Timeline
- Give your photographer full access: to the planner, the schedule, and your vibe.
- The more they know, the more intuitively they’ll capture the essence of your day.


